FRIENDS ?? Do we really have them ?

Well my friends... did the title make you curious ?  If it did Awesome because I wanted it to, why do I say this ?  Think about these things...

•  Have you recently looked through your friends list on Facebook ? I just did...

1.  How many people do you talk to even once a week ? Once a month ?
2. Are these friends dealing with something, life is hard. 

• Who starts the conversation ? You , them, both of you?

How do you actually define friendship ?  Everyone's definition is totally different.  I believe that a friend is someone that checks to see how you are from time to time, listens when you have a problem, will take time out of their crazy busy schedules for you if need them. They love you , it's simple as that !!

I'm not saying if a friend calls you and says "my hair dresser cut my hair a inch too short I don't know what to do?" (Yes I've gotten these calls) , You drop everything , run to their side, take them to dinner, etc... (you get the point..)   Here is a situation though, if a friend calls you saying they are ill or need surgery and they are scared about something important  ... Then you take time for them. That's what friends do.

I have real and fake friends on Facebook and people I see from time to time. I know the ones I can count on , if I ask just for a prayer, to ask them to listen, for advice..  Then I have the ones that no matter how much I try to contact them , I don't get a response from , they are most likely just on my friend's list to get information for other people (oh well I'm a open book normally)

I have deleted a few because it's not worth my time to deal with the childish behavior.  So here is what I want to say. If I have people that are negative Influences in my life, or want to question what I do all the time. There not my real friend's..  

I'm a protective person and when someone asked me the other day " Who is your best friend?"  I answered it in a second.. My Husband.. No doubt

If I had to count how many friends I actually have it would be a small number.  10 of you are close friend's that I met here on Facebook in groups and we talk daily. You accept me and you know who you are..
So here is what I want you all to know..

• I love my friends and will always do what ever possible to help you.
• These are my feelings not yours, so don't go erasing a lot of people from your friends list
• I'm always here, it may take me a bit to get back to you but I will.. promise !!
• Never let anyone put you down, your awesome !
• Love yourself because you really are your own best friend no matter what !!

I hope you all have a blessed day
Love Debbie

"I would rather have an enemy that admits they hate me, then have a friend that secretly puts me down"  -Unknown
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